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Some see speech live, others laterOswego district changes position on Obama's talk
September 9, 2009
By ERIKA WURST ewurst@scn1.com
In their Oswego family home, the Danca family sat silently Tuesday morning, eyes glued to the TV.
Through the speakers of the flat screen, President Barack Obama spoke firm and loud, addressing students about the importance of trying hard in school and overcoming obstacles in their lives.
Last week, the 15-minute speech, which was to be aired live to students across the country, raised controversy. Concerned parents -- afraid political messages would be pushed on their kids -- filled administrators' in-boxes with their grievances.
Julie and Dave Danca, upset with the Oswego School District's decision to not provide their children with a live viewing of the president's address, gave both Ross, a Traughber Junior High School sixth-grader, and Hannah, a junior at Oswego High School, the option of watching it from home.
"I wish they could have watched it in school," Julie said.
"It was about school," Hannah added. "It only makes sense that that's where we watch it."
They may get the chance.
By 1 p.m. Oswego Superintendent Dan O'Donnell sent a message to Oswego parents: Students will be shown the speech on Thursday. The message came with an apology.
"We apologize for how this situation has affected many of our families," O'Donnell said via phone blast, and on the district Web site. After listening to Obama's speech, administrators reversed their decision to not air the speech, stating that the messages will indeed benefit many.
But on Tuesday, the Dancas and other Fox Valley families convened in family rooms, watching the president speak.
"Some of the most successful people in the world are the ones who have had the most failure," Obama said, pointing toward J.K. Rowling's famous Harry Potter books, rejected 12 times by publishers.
Julie Danca smirked, and looked toward Hannah, whose T-shirt bore the popular character's name.
"Michael Jordan was cut from his high school basketball team," Obama said. "He once said, 'I have failed over and over again in life, and that's why I succeeded.' You can't let your failures define you. You have to let them teach you and show you what to do differently next time.
"Where you live, what you look like, what happens at home -- it's no excuse for not trying," the president said. "No one has written your destiny for you. You make your own future."
And that future, Obama said, won't come without effort.
"I like how (Obama) can use examples out of his own life when he's speaking," Ross said, while debriefing with his family. "He's an example that's right in front of us."
For Hannah, the reassurance that the struggles of high school are everyone's, not just her own, was an important message.
"It's good to know that everyone has problems with teachers and different subjects," Hannah said. "I'm not the only one like that. I think the speech will help kids who don't want to listen to their mom or dads by giving them someone to look up to."
And when the speech was over, all four Danca family members failed to understand the controversy.
"We'll have to play it backwards now for subliminal messages," Dave said with a chuckle.